{"id":11,"date":"2024-08-02T11:37:26","date_gmt":"2024-08-02T11:37:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/?p=11"},"modified":"2024-08-02T11:37:26","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T11:37:26","slug":"aitah-for-slapping-my-husband-in-the-face","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/?p=11","title":{"rendered":"AITAH for slapping my husband in the face?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>My (43m) husband thinks it\u2019s funny to constantly slap me (43f) in the privates all day everyday. He sneaks up behind me and will stick his finger in my ass or slap my vagina. He does this in front of the kids. Once or twice is one thing but this is at least 10 times a day. Tonight I was in the shower washing my face and he came in and slapped my privates.He knows I don\u2019t like it. I\u2019ve told him. I also have bad hemorrhoids after having the kids so when he sticks his finger there it hurts! He knows this.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>(Sorry for the tmi but I\u2019m pissed). After the shower tonight I slapped him in the face. Not hard but hard enough to sting. His reaction was to punch me in the stomach and tell me he wants a divorce for hurting him. He\u2019s never done that before and in my opinion wayyyy overreacted. After 11 years of marriage that was a first and he said I\u2019m the AH. Meanwhile I\u2019m ready to leave and take the kids tonight.I know his reaction was not okay but was I out of line? UPDATE: wow I am so overwhelmed with all the encouragement and kind posts. I had a few not so friendly ones and I wish you\u2019d refrain from making me feel worse by saying hurtful stuff. Unfortunately this is true and I is don\u2019t make it up. I do feel the need to clarify a few things since I seem to have not chosen the best wording in my hasty post yesterday. He has not been doing this for year. This started a couple weeks ago. We both work from home and are home 24\/7. No I do not walk around naked. He\u2019s poking my butt through my clothes so not penetrating but it hurts and he knows that My children are safe as am I. I did call police last night and had him removed from the home. I\u2019ve started to talk to a lawyer and will move things along as needed My husband did call today and I had shut my phone off for a while, hence the late update, but he of course is apologizing and doesn\u2019t want to divorce. He offered counseling so we will look into that. I don\u2019t know how I feel just yet about trying to make this work but we will see.Thank you all again for reaching out. I haven\u2019t been able to reply to everyone yet but I will try.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My (43m) husband thinks it\u2019s funny to constantly slap me (43f) in the privates all day everyday. He sneaks up behind me and will stick his finger in my ass&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"views":128,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/usvibee.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}