
In April 2022, Amanda, now 33, posted the ultrasound image on Facebook, announcing that her unborn son, Jay, had “healthy kidneys, no cysts, and perfect blood flow to and from,” relieving her long-standing fears.
She added that her son was “Potter syndrome free,” referring to a rare condition that affects kidney development and other internal organs, often resulting in life-threatening complications and low survival rates for infants.
According to the Cleveland Clinic, Potter syndrome primarily affects males and can result in kidney failure, low amniotic fluid, and underdeveloped lungs, making early detection critical for ensuring a baby’s survival and proper growth.
“My thought at that time was, ‘If God is going to take my son, He will take me too,’” Amanda wrote on Facebook, describing her grief after losing her first son, Xavier, so unexpectedly.
She admitted that losing Xavier led to a period of anger and resentment toward God, particularly after doctors warned her that having a healthy baby boy was unlikely due to Potter syndrome’s prevalence in males.
Despite these fears, Amanda and her husband Kyle went on to have two healthy daughters, each bringing joy and stability into their lives, demonstrating their resilience and commitment to building a loving family.
In August 2022, Amanda and Kyle welcomed their first son, Jay, who was born healthy and strong

Her devotion and faith became a cornerstone of her experience, providing strength in the face of uncertainty and helping her remain positive despite the medical challenges her unborn son faced.
Joining her for one of these appointments was her youngest daughter, Bailey. Amanda hoped her presence would help ease the tension that often accompanied these high-risk scans and provide emotional support for the family.